Hey —

I have been thinking and I don’t think it’s a good idea to meet. …


That we all change and we evolved.

I woke up feeling terrible and I couldn’t stop crying, I couldn’t stop blaming myself for ending things with him and I felt bad for not being the nicest and the kindest person I was when I was with him. …


You need to understand why you felt what you did and why you no longer need to feel it.

Remember, he did not deny that he was distancing himself away — he agreed. Your feelings were not all in your mind, it was validated and you tried your best. …


from Jessica Jensen

we carry collected pain from so many moments. like the time during high school when you were first made fun of or when you didn’t get a high enough score to be placed in advanced classes. maybe you lost yourself in the transition to adulthood, parenthood, or…


My therapist told me that it is important to take some time off by yourself, away from distractions and just focus on yourself once in a week and at the very least, once in a month — focus on your struggles, your pains and look at where you have come…


A phrase we used to laugh about when we talked about my hair dryer @ home

And for the last 1 month — I was so fixated on the fact that we don’t have any more plans post 5th March that you don’t want me anymore. I still can’t get…


but Janelle you are the one who messes it up so badly and drives him away — be responsible for your actions.

i have been taking the last two weeks doing some self reflection — and remember janelle, you told him you didn’t want any sexual intimacy because all the…


Dear Mr Handyman

My mind has repeated the scenarios multiple times- i have went back, revisited the pain and recognised all the problems and issues that i had, and have went down the path of blaming myself multiple times. I cannot tell you the number of times i have scolded…


The last therapy session went great — i have been trying to recharge the last few days from social life so haven’t been able to update. i will share my thoughts here soon.

Janelle

forthelovelysouls

if you are here for unicorns and roses, i apologise

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